CEMETERY ETIQUETTE
Cemetery Etiquette
When visiting a cemetery, it's important to follow certain basic rules to show respect for both the living and the deceased. These guidelines help ensure a courteous and peaceful experience for everyone.
Follow the Rules
Check for a sign at the entrance listing specific rules for the cemetery and follow any floral regulations they have set.
Obey the Hours
Cemeteries are typically open from dawn until dusk. Avoid staying after dark to prevent trespassing charges.
Drive with Care
Stick to the roadways and stay off the grass. Drive slowly and watch for pedestrians. If the lane is narrow and another car approaches, move your car to allow them to pass.
Respect the Graves
Avoid touching monuments or headstones to prevent damage, especially to older memorials. Never remove items like flowers, coins, or tributes left by others.
Look After Your Children
Keep a close eye on children, ensuring they don’t run, yell, or climb on graves and monuments. Teach them to be respectful and considerate.
Speak Softly & Politely
Be considerate of other mourners by keeping your voice down and avoiding the use of bad language.
Lower the Volume
Turn off your cellphone and avoid phone conversations, as voices carry in open spaces. Also, turn off your car stereo while driving or parking in the cemetery.
Be Respectful of Services and Other Mourners
Do not interfere with funeral processions. Never take photos of strangers at a funeral or visiting a gravesite; respect their privacy and grief.
Don't Leave Trash Behind
Use designated trash receptacles or take your trash with you when you leave to avoid creating extra work for caretakers and disrespecting other visitors.
Leash Your Pets
Before bringing your pet, check if it’s allowed. If so, keep them on a leash at all times.